1. Teach children to love and love himself.How: Consider yourself first. Always make time for yourself personally in the midst of your daily. Make time for you to exercise, take care of themselves, and make time for your personal development. Do you realize that the parent who does not respect himself will raise a child with similar properties!
2. Spend quality time every day.Show me how you really happy for her presence. Be 'Delighted Expert' for your children. Change your time doing daily tasks become a precious and special moments. Singing, hugging, sharing laughter and stories can make ordinary moments become unforgettable.
3. Be a good listener.This is not an easy thing for parents. How often interrupted and busy parents with advice even when children do not finish? Keep your misgivings at the time of listening. Try to listen without judging your child completely. You need to refrain from thinking or give your own opinion. Listen to them with an open heart and loving. Get over yourself and put yourself in your child's perspective. Ask questions instead of giving opinions. How to listen without judging parents will make children feel accepted and understood.
4. Often laughing, because the excitement was contagious!Think of yourself at this time was selected to perform the '30 day challenge smiling with family '! You will witness the miracle of joy and affection that you bring to the people around you. Make everyday moments into extraordinary blessings of joy and passion you bring into it.
5. Give recognition and appreciation.Train starts from yourself to pay tribute to every success, even the most minor ones, you have done today. Teach yourself to give our sincere appreciation for simple tasks that you managed to finish. This award will give new vigor in your life to run a bigger task.
Take 5 minutes for yourself every day to think about and write down the successes you have achieved today. Feel how your life changes, enjoy the new spirit that fills each of your activities. Also share this award to your children. Give praise, recognition and sincere appreciation to them. Remember, the award is good emphasis on action, not on our achievements.
6. Discipline of children with respect.Teach children partly responsible for the routine tasks in the household. Children who participated actively involved in routine tasks in the household in adult life will have a sense of responsibility is greater.
Fix them with tenderness, but you have to keep consistent. Give a reasonable consequence of the breach in order to teach responsibility. Do not scold a child let alone embarrass in front of others for mistakes they did.
Encourage them to a quiet place to talk only with your four-eyes. Give a very clear understanding of why this is wrong. Ask the children to apologize when he did wrong. You also need to apologize to the children at times when you are guilty or dereliction of your promise to them. Discipline of children without showing the power and anger you, then the child will learn to grow up with high self-control. Convey the message to them that although their behavior still needs to be improved, but you as parents are still loved and liked them.
7. Give space for your children to make mistakes.Remember, that every person, especially a child, is entitled to make mistakes. Mistakes are part of the learning process. Find the good in the mistakes they do, then your child will learn to dare to struggle with the challenges and risks.
8. Instill the values of honesty, responsibility, and the spirit of mutual help.Bring in your daily life how you are always consistent with these values. Involve your children are also in social activities that you regularly do. Your children will grow up with strong positive character within them.
9. Focus your attention on the things that went right.Have faith that affirms your family in difficult times. Your children will learn to become a person who is optimistic and grateful every day. Practice a positive attitude to find positive things in your every day and thank him always.
Love your child unconditionally sincerely, and express the size of your affection to them. Children who are in genuine affection will grow with more fun, confident, fun, and reliable
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